Kamtza and Bar-Kamtza “on one foot”:
This Talmudic story is associated with Tisha B’Av.
Act 1
אַקַּמְצָא וּבַר קַמְצָא חֲרוּב יְרוּשָׁלַיִם דְּהָהוּא גַּבְרָא דְּרָחֲמֵיהּ קַמְצָא וּבְעֵל דְּבָבֵיהּ בַּר קַמְצָא עֲבַד סְעוֹדְתָּא אֲמַר לֵיהּ לְשַׁמָּעֵיהּ זִיל אַיְיתִי לִי קַמְצָא אֲזַל אַיְיתִי לֵיהּ בַּר קַמְצָא אֲתָא אַשְׁכְּחֵיהּ דַּהֲוָה יָתֵיב אֲמַר לֵיהּ מִכְּדֵי הָהוּא גַּבְרָא בְּעֵל דְּבָבֵאּ דְּהָהוּא גַּבְרָא הוּא מַאי בָּעֵית הָכָא קוּם פּוֹק אֲמַר לֵיהּ הוֹאִיל וַאֲתַאי שִׁבְקַן וְיָהֵיבְנָא לָךְ דְּמֵי מָה דְּאָכֵילְנָא וְשָׁתֵינָא אֲמַר לֵיהּ לָא אֲמַר לֵיהּ יָהֵיבְנָא לָךְ דְּמֵי פַּלְגָא דִּסְעוֹדְתָּיךְ אֲמַר לֵיהּ לָא אֲמַר לֵיהּ יָהֵיבְנָא לָךְ דְּמֵי כּוּלַּהּ סְעוֹדְתָּיךְ אֲמַר לֵיהּ לָא נַקְטֵיהּ בִּידֵיהּ וְאוֹקְמֵיהּ וְאַפְּקֵיהּ
The Gemara explains: Jerusalem was destroyed on account of Kamtza and bar Kamtza. This is as there was a certain man whose friend was named Kamtza and whose enemy was named bar Kamtza. He once made a large feast and said to his servant: Go bring me my friend Kamtza. The servant went and mistakenly brought him his enemy bar Kamtza. The man who was hosting the feast came and found bar Kamtza sitting at the feast. The host said to bar Kamtza. That man is the enemy of that man, that is, you are my enemy. What then do you want here? Arise and leave. Bar Kamtza said to him: Since I have already come, let me stay and I will give you money for whatever I eat and drink. Just do not embarrass me by sending me out. The host said to him: No, you must leave. Bar Kamtza said to him: I will give you money for half of the feast; just do not send me away. The host said to him: No, you must leave. Bar Kamtza then said to him: I will give you money for the entire feast; just let me stay. The host said to him: No, you must leave. Finally, the host took bar Kamtza by his hand, stood him up, and took him out.
Context: This is from the Babylonian Talmud, Masechet (Tractate) Gittin, which is about divorce. The Mishnah (5:6) explores the question of buying a field from a couple who is divorcing, and in particular how this might have been affected by the circumstances during the destruction of Jerusalem by the Romans. The Gemara then poses the question of why the Romans were destroying Jerusalem in the first place, and it brings this story to explain what happened.
1. Who is at fault here?
2. At what points could the story have been changed?
3. Did anybody make a good decision?
4. What lessons about leadership can be learned from this?
5. Should the other guests have done anything? If so, why might they have not done so?
Act 2
אָמַר הוֹאִיל וַהֲווֹ יָתְבִי רַבָּנַן וְלָא מַחוֹ בֵּיהּ שְׁמַע מִינַּהּ קָא נִיחָא לְהוּ אֵיזִיל אֵיכוֹל בְּהוּ קוּרְצָא בֵּי מַלְכָּא אֲזַל אֲמַר לֵיהּ לְקֵיסָר מְרַדוּ בָּךְ יְהוּדָאֵי אֲמַר לֵיהּ מִי יֵימַר אֲמַר לֵיהּ שַׁדַּר לְהוּ קוּרְבָּנָא חָזֵית אִי מַקְרְבִין לֵיהּ אֲזַל שַׁדַּר בִּידֵיהּ עִגְלָא תִּלְתָּא בַּהֲדֵי דְּקָאָתֵי שְׁדָא בֵּיהּ מוּמָא בְּנִיב שְׂפָתַיִם וְאָמְרִי לַהּ בְּדוּקִּין שֶׁבָּעַיִן דּוּכְתָּא דִּלְדִידַן הָוֵה מוּמָא וּלְדִידְהוּ לָאו מוּמָא הוּא
After having been cast out from the feast, bar Kamtza said to himself: Since the Sages were sitting there and did not protest the actions of the host, although they saw how he humiliated me, learn from it that they were content with what he did. I will therefore go and inform [eikhul kurtza] against them to the king. He went and said to the emperor: The Jews have rebelled against you. The emperor said to him: Who says that this is the case? Bar Kamtza said to him: Go and test them; send them an offering to be brought in honor of the government, and see whether they will sacrifice it. The emperor went and sent with him a choice three-year-old calf. While bar Kamtza was coming with the calf to the Temple, he made a blemish on the calf’s upper lip (and some say he made the blemish on its eyelids), a place where according to us, i.e., halakha, it is a blemish, but according to them, gentile rules for their offerings, it is not a blemish. Therefore, when bar Kamtza brought the animal to the Temple, the priests would not sacrifice it on the altar since it was blemished, but they also could not explain this satisfactorily to the gentile authorities, who did not consider it to be blemished.
1. Who is at fault here?
2. At what points could the story have been changed?
3. Did anybody make a good decision?
4. What lessons about leadership can be learned from this?
5. What does this text say about our obligation to speak up about injustices in our times now? Do we need to witness a situation to be a “bystander”?
6. According to Rabbi Ed Feinstein, this story shows that “the fate of a community lies in the texture of the fabric of its relationships”. How is that relevant today?
Act 3
סְבוּר רַבָּנַן לְקָרוֹבֵיהּ מִשּׁוּם שְׁלוֹם מַלְכוּת אֲמַר לְהוּ רַבִּי זְכַרְיָה בֶּן אַבְקוּלָס יֹאמְרוּ בַּעֲלֵי מוּמִין קְרֵיבִין לְגַבֵּי מִזְבֵּחַ סְבוּר לְמִיקְטְלֵיהּ דְּלָא לֵיזִיל וְלֵימָא אֲמַר לְהוּ רַבִּי זְכַרְיָה יֹאמְרוּ מֵטִיל מוּם בַּקֳּדָשִׁים יֵהָרֵג אָמַר רַבִּי יוֹחָנָן עִנְוְותָנוּתוֹ שֶׁל רַבִּי זְכַרְיָה בֶּן אַבְקוּלָס הֶחְרִיבָה אֶת בֵּיתֵנוּ וְשָׂרְפָה אֶת הֵיכָלֵנוּ וְהִגְלִיתָנוּ מֵאַרְצֵנוּ
The blemish notwithstanding, the Sages thought to sacrifice the animal as an offering due to the imperative to maintain peace with the government. Rabbi Zekharya ben Avkolas said to them: If the priests do that, people will say that blemished animals may be sacrificed as offerings on the altar. The Sages said: If we do not sacrifice it, then we must prevent bar Kamtza from reporting this to the emperor. The Sages thought to kill him so that he would not go and speak against them. Rabbi Zekharya said to them: If you kill him, people will say that one who makes a blemish on sacrificial animals is to be killed. As a result, they did nothing, bar Kamtza’s slander was accepted by the authorities, and consequently the war between the Jews and the Romans began. Rabbi Yoḥanan says: The excessive humility of Rabbi Zekharya ben Avkolas destroyed our Temple, burned our Sanctuary, and exiled us from our land.
תַּנְיָא אָמַר רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֹּא וּרְאֵה כַּמָּה גָּדוֹל(ה) כֹּחָהּ שֶׁל בּוּשָׁה שֶׁהֲרֵי סִיַּיע הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא אֶת בַּר קַמְצָא וְהֶחְרִיב אֶת בֵּיתוֹ וְשָׂרַף אֶת הֵיכָלוֹ
To conclude the story of Kamtza and bar Kamtza and the destruction of Jerusalem, the Gemara cites a baraita. It is taught: Rabbi Elazar says: Come and see how great is the power of shame, for the Holy One, Blessed be God, assisted bar Kamtza, who had been humiliated, and due to this humiliation and shame God destroyed God's Temple and burned God's Sanctuary.
1. Who is at fault here?
2. At what points could the story have been changed?
3. Did anybody make a good decision?
4. What lessons about leadership can be learned from this?
5. Is there such a thing as being overly ethical?
6. Kamtza appears to have nothing to do with this story, since he never even got the invitation, yet his name is on the story. Are there modern parallels?
7. Rabbi Zechariah seems to be a perfectionist. What would he say are the benefits of this approach? What would Rabbi Yochanan say are the dangers of perfectionism?
8. Another way of looking at Rabbi Zechariah is that he is religiously cautious. When might that be a valuable trait? When might it be important to override that tendency?
9. Elsewhere in the Talmud, the Rabbis say that the Second Temple was destroyed because of “sinat chinam”, baseless hatred (Yoma 9b:8). Do you see that at work in this story? If so, where? Either way, what would it look like if “baseless love” were being employed in this story?
10. Why would this be a story that the Rabbis told about themselves?
Reader’s Theatre for Kamtza and Bar-Kamtza
(adapted from the Babylonian Talmud, Gittin 55b-56a, by David Schwartz)
Act 1
Scene 1
(Setting: A mansion in Jerusalem)
Narrator: Jerusalem was destroyed on account of Kamtza and Bar-Kamtza
Host: Servant, I’m throwing a feast. Please invite my friend Kamtza.
Servant: Yes, sir!
Scene 2
(Setting: The same mansion in Jerusalem)
Narrator: The servant mistakenly invited the host’s enemy, Bar-Kamtza, instead of his friend, Kamtza.
Host: Bar-Kamtza, what are you doing here, sitting at my feast?! You know I don’t like you. Get up and go away!
Bar-Kamtza: Since I have already come, let me stay and I will give you money for whatever I eat and drink. Just don’t embarrass me by sending me out.
Host: No, you must leave.
Bar-Kamtza: I will give you money for half the feast. Just don’t send me away!
Host: No, you must leave.
Bar-Kamtza: I will give you money for the entire feast, just let me stay.
Host: No, you must leave.
Narrator: The host took Bar-Kamtza by the hand, stood him up, and took him out.
Act 2
Scene 1
(Setting: Just outside the mansion in Jerusalem)
Bar-Kamtza: Since the Rabbis were sitting there and did not protest the actions of the host, even though they saw how he humiliated me, they must be content with what he did. I will go and inform against them to the Roman emperor.
Scene 2
(Setting: The Imperial palace in Rome)
Bar-Kamtza: Your Majesty, the Jews are rebelling against you.
Emperor: Who says that this is the case?
Bar-Kamtza: Go and test them. Send them an offering on behalf of the government and see if they will sacrifice it.
Emperor: I will send with you a choice three-year-old calf.
Scene 3
(Setting: On the road to the Temple)
Bar-Kamtza: I will give the calf a blemish on its upper lip, or maybe on its eyelid. This way it will be blemished according to Jewish law, but not according to Roman law. The Jews won’t be able to sacrifice it, but they won’t be able to satisfactorily explain it to the Roman authorities, and revenge will be mine!
Act 3
Scene 1
(Setting: The Temple)
The Rabbis: Even with this blemish, we should sacrifice the animal as an offering. It’s important to maintain good relations with the government.
Rabbi Zechariah ben Avkolas: If the priests do that, people will say that blemished animals may be sacrificed as offerings on the alter.
The Rabbis: If we don’t sacrifice it, we must prevent Bar-Kamtza for reporting this to the emperor. We should kill him so he cannot inform against us.
Rabbi Zechariah ben Avkolas: If you kill him, people will say that one who makes a blemish on a sacrificial animal ought to be killed.
Narrator: As a result they did nothing, Bar-Kamtza’s slander was accepted by the authorities, and consequently the war between the Jews and the Romans began.
Scene 2
(Setting: Outside Jerusalem)
Rabbi Yochanan: The excessive humility of Rabbi Zechariah ben Avkolas destroyed our Temple, burned our Sanctuary, and exiled us from our land.
Rabbi Elazar: Come and see how great is the power of shame, for the Holy One, blessed be G-d, assisted Bar-Kamtza, who had been humiliated, and due to this humiliation G-d destroyed G-d's temple and burned G-d's sanctuary.
Context: This video is from Bimbam, a now-defunct Jewish video company. They have many excellent videos, both about the weekly Torah portions and about many many other Jewish topics, and these are still available on YouTube. There's another animated video about this story which you can find here (it includes the original Aramaic from the Talmud, translated phrase by phrase): https://www.alephbeta.org/playlist/baseless-hatred-sinat-chinam?fbclid=IwAR331TlhBZrhWEJR_-sE31KgoHKcEzCCkPnm_GPUgTJoETysqwIpKmZ3rHI
With appreciation to Eitan Gutin for the idea of the story as a 3-act play, as well as Rachel Zerin, Yaakov Nadler, Jonathan Bressler, Alana Suskin, Arnie Draiman, Ben Dreyfus, Alicia Jo Rabins, Benji Elson, Rabbi Ed Feinstein, Eliana Light, Sarah Noyo, Ec Smith, Dan Libenson, Deborah Miller, Gavriel Goldfeder,
Appendix: Kamtza and Bar-Kamtza Go to High School
(By: David A. Feder, used with permission)
There was a girl named Sophie. Sophie’s family has a lot of money, and Sophie has a lot of friends. But she was not friends with everybody, and when she threw a party, she had a pretty selective guest list in mind, starting with the popular kids on the dance team. You can imagine what it feels like to get invited to one of Sophie’s parties, and what it feels like to not get invited. Needless to say, all the important people at school were invited, and those who were not, were not.
Sophie texted an invitation to her friend Rachel Green, and told her she really wanted Rachel to come to her party. But there was a problem: Sophie made a mistake. Instead of texting her friend Rachel Green, she texted Rachel Greenberg. Rachel Greenberg had been a friend of Sophie’s in elementary school, but they had a falling out, and Sophie got Rachel kicked off the dance team. Now they don’t even speak. Their friends didn’t even speak to each other.
But Rachel Greenberg got the invitation by mistake, and Rachel Greenberg decided to come to the party. Rachel saw the whole dance team there, and when Sophie found her there eating snacks and looking for someone to talk to, she was outraged. Sophie didn’t realize how Rachel Greenberg found out about the party, and how she thought it would be OK to show up. Sophie demanded that Rachel leave immediately.
Rachel Greenberg was devastated – she thought she was doing this really mature, responsible thing, and repairing this relationship. She offered to pay for all the food she ate at the party, but Sophie turned her down. She offered to pay for half the cost of the whole party, but Sophie turned her down. Rachel offered to pay for the entire party – food, decorations, DJ, everything. But Sophie wouldn’t have any of it, and kicked her out.
As you can imagine, Rachel Greenberg was humiliated, and she felt she had to do something to get back at Sophie, but even more, at Sophie’s friends on the dance team who had watched and laughed as Rachel got kicked out. So the next day, Rachel went to their school principal, and told him that Sophie and her friends were planning to cheat on a test at the end of the week.
The principal wasn’t sure whether to believe Rachel, and decided on a plan. He figured he would do something nice for the dance team, and try to convince them that the school valued them. If they really were planning to cheat on the test, perhaps this nice gesture would win them over, and they wouldn’t cheat after all. If they were not planning to cheat after all, it was simply a nice thing to do for the team.
The principal asked Rachel to deliver a dozen donuts to the team. Rachel took the donuts, and carefully dipped each one in the gutter, and only then, dropped them off at dance rehearsal.
The dance team noticed. The donuts were nasty. But what was this message the principal was sending them? Why send tainted donuts to dance practice? They debated: should they send the principal a thank-you note, in order to preserve their relationship with the principal and show they are not up to anything? Or should they reject it, so people know that you can’t send tainted gifts to the dance team?
Sophie took things one step further – she suspected (rightly, of course) that Rachel Greenberg was behind the nasty donuts. Perhaps the team should accuse Rachel of cheating, and try to get her suspended.
The captain of the dance team was there for the discussion about what to do about the donuts. She decided that the team could not accept the donuts and send the thank-you note. And she also decided they should not try to have Rachel suspended.
The next day, the principal called Rachel, Sophie, and the whole dance team to the office. What should the principal do, and why?
* * *
The rabbis of the Talmud told pretty much this exact story, except in place of the dance team there were rabbis, in place of the donuts there was an animal sacrifice at the Temple, and instead of a school principal there was Caesar, ruler of Rome. Rachel Green’s name was Kamtza, Rachel Greenberg’s name was Bar Kamtza, and the captain of the dance team was Rabbi Zecharia. The rabbis of the Talmud wrote that this story was about sinat hinam – “baseless hatred,” and it illustrated why the Temple deserved to be destroyed. They said that Rabbi Zecharia – the dance team captain in our story – was the source of
the baseless hatred. What led them to that conclusion?
•Was it the decision to not retaliate against Rachel?
•Was it the decision to not send the principal a thank-you note?
•Or was it what the team captain/Rabbi Zecharia did at the party?
Why would the rabbis focus on what the captain of the dance team did, and not Sophie or Rachel?