(יא) וַיְהִ֕י כַּאֲשֶׁ֥ר הִקְרִ֖יב לָב֣וֹא מִצְרָ֑יְמָה וַיֹּ֙אמֶר֙ אֶל־שָׂרַ֣י אִשְׁתּ֔וֹ הִנֵּה־נָ֣א יָדַ֔עְתִּי כִּ֛י אִשָּׁ֥ה יְפַת־מַרְאֶ֖ה אָֽתְּ׃
(א) ויהי רעב בארץ ... ודע כי אברהם אבינו חטא חטא גדול בשגגה שהביא אשתו הצדקת במכשול עון מפני פחדו פן יהרגוהו והיה לו לבטוח בשם שיציל אותו ואת אשתו ואת כל אשר לו כי יש באלקים כח לעזור ולהציל גם יציאתו מן הארץ שנצטווה עליה בתחילה מפני הרעב עון אשר חטא כי האלקים ברעב יפדנו ממות ועל המעשה הזה נגזר על זרעו הגלות בארץ מצרים ביד פרעה במקום המשפט שמה הרשע והחטא:
(1) AND THERE WAS A FAMINE IN THE LAND...
Know that Abraham our father unintentionally committed a great sin by bringing his righteous wife to a stumbling-block of sin on account of his fear for his life. He should have trusted that G-d would save him and his wife and all his belongings for G-d surely has the power to help and to save. His leaving the Land, concerning which he had been commanded from the beginning, on account of the famine, was also a sin he committed, for in famine G-d would redeem him from death. It was because of this deed that the exile in the land of Egypt at the hand of Pharaoh was decreed for his children. In the place of justice, there is wickedness and sin.
(א) והיה כי יראו אתך המצרים, בני מצרים אינם יפים כמו בני ארץ כנען, אבל הם כעורים כי הם דרומים והם שטופים בזמה לפיכך כשהיה קרוב למצרים והיה בגבולה וראה אנשיה כעורים היה ירא כשיראו אשתו שהיא יפת תאר שיחמדו אותה, כי אם היה יודע זה מתחלה לא הלך למצרים אלא היה סובל הרעב ולא שיפקיר את אשתו; ולא ירא שיאנסו אותה ממנה וישכבו עמה כי אם יעשו זה פעם אחת לא יעשו פעמים רבות שישכבו אותה לעיניו כי זה יהיה חמס רב וחמס תמידי לא יסבלו אנשי העולם, אבל להרוג אותו אינו אלא פעם אחת ואחר כך תהיה מופקרת להם בלא חמס, כי לא יהיה לה בעל ומזה פחד אברהם, ולא סמך על הבטחת האל שהבטיחו, כי אמר שמא יגרום החטא וכן פחד יעקב אבינו אחר הבטחת האל וכן ראוי לכל צדיק שלא יסמוך במקום סכנה על הנס וישמור עצמו בכל תחבולה אשר יוכל, ועל זה אמר שלמה אשרי אדם מפחד תמיד (משלי כ״ח:י״ד) וכן אחז"ל (תענית ט') מניין שאין סומכים על הנס שנאמר לא תנסו את ה' אלקיכם (דברים ו') וכן ראינו שמואל הנביא כשהלך בשליחות האל ופחד משאול, ואמר "ושמע שאול והרגוני" (שמואל א' ט"ז) וגם האל שבח פחדו ולא אמר לו אל תפחד כי לא יהרגך, אבל אמר לו "עגלת בקר תקח בידך" והודה לו כי טובה היתה מחשבתו שהיה מפחד, וכן ראוי לכל צדיק שיעשה כן ולא יבטח על הנס.
(1) והיה כי יראו אותך המצרים, the Egyptians themselves are physically not as attractive as the Canaanites, their relative ugliness being due to their living in a southerly extremely hot climate. Moreover, they are steeped in sexual licentiousness that makes them disregard moral mores and causes them to ignore obstacles to satisfying their lust. Avram therefore was concerned that when such ugly people see as beautiful a creature as Sarai, and they find out that she is married, they will simply dispose of the husband to remove him as an obstacle to satisfy their lust. Had Avram been aware of this situation, he would never have set out on his journey towards Egypt, but would have been content to endure the famine just as did most of the other inhabitants of the land of Canaan. He most certainly would not have put his wife at risk. Even now, Avram was not concerned that Sarai might be exposed to many rapes, something which would have been considered as ongoing violence and not have been tolerated even in Egypt. He was afraid that the Egyptians would commit only a single act of violence, namely to murder him, which would make Sarai a widow, and anyone sleeping with her would not violate the local laws of the sanctity of marriage. As to why he did not trust G’d, Who had promised to make him into a great nation, a promise that had not yet begun to be fulfilled, and preferred to resort to subterfuge, this is not surprising. We find that Yaakov also took extreme precautions in spite of having been given many assurances by G’d. The promises by G’d are based on man having taken every reasonable precaution not to require a miracle to save him from danger. When one is aware that one finds oneself in a situation where danger to one’s life is likely, one must first take every precaution at one’s disposal to counter such danger. Our sages (Pessachim 64) have told us that it is inadmissible to sit with one’s hands in one’s hands, waiting for G’d to perform a miracle to save one’s life. They base this advice on the verse in Deut. 6,16 לא תנסו את ה' אלוקיכם, “do not put the Lord your G’d in a position of having to perform a miracle for you.” When the prophet Samuel went to anoint a son of Yishai (David as it turned out) as replacement for King Sha-ul (Samuel I 16,2) he told G’d that he was afraid to do this as King Sha-ul would kill him if he heard about this, G’d did not criticise him for being afraid, but instructed him to use subterfuge so as to avoid suspicion of traitorous conduct. We learn from these examples how a righteous person must behave when he faces danger in carrying out what he knows to be G’d’s will. One must not leave matters to miracles.
(7) And there was quarreling between the herdsmen of Abram’s cattle and those of Lot’s cattle.—The Canaanites and Perizzites were then dwelling in the land.—
(א) ויהי ריב ... ועל דרך הפשט היתה המריבה על המרעה כי לא נשא אותם הארץ וכאשר היה מקנה אברם רועה באחו היו רועי לוט באים בגבולם ורועים שם והנה אברם ולוט היו גרים ותושבים בארץ ופחד אברם פן ישמע הכנעני והפריזי יושב הארץ כובד מקניהם ויגרשום או יכו אותם לפי חרב ויקחו להם מקניהם ורכושם כי ישיבת הארץ עתה להם לא לאברם וזה טעם והכנעני והפריזי כי הזכיר שהיו עמים רבים יושבים בארץ ההיא ולהם ולמקניהם אין מספר ולא ישא אותם הארץ ואת אברם ולוט וממלת אז יראה לי כי העמים היו בארץ בימים ההם יושבי אהל ומקנה נאספים מקצתם אל עיר אחת ורועים שם שנה או שנתים ונוסעים משם אל גבול אחר אשר לא רעו אותו וכן יעשו תמיד כמנהג בני קדר והכנעני והפריזי היו אז בארץ הנגב ובשנה האחרת יבואו שם היבוסי והאמורי:
(1) AND THERE WAS A QUARREL...
By way of the plain meaning of Scripture the quarrel concerned the pasture as the land could not support them both. When Abram’s cattle were grazing in the pasture, Lot’s shepherds would come into their territory and graze their cattle there. Now Abram and Lot were both strangers and sojourners in the land. Abram, therefore, feared that the Canaanite and the Perrizite, who inhabit the land, might hear of the abundance of their cattle, [whose great number was made apparent when Lot’s shepherds encroached on Abram’s land, thereby combining the flocks], and drive them out of the land or slay them by sword and take their cattle and wealth since the mastery of the land belonged to them, not to Abram. This is the purport of the verse, And the Canaanite and the Perrizite. Scripture thus mentioned that there were many peoples dwelling in that land, they and their cattle being innumerable, and the land could not support them and Abram and Lot.
From the word oz (then) — [And the Canaanite and the Perrizite abode ‘then’ in the land] — it appears to me that the nations dwelling in the land at that time were those who live in tents and have cattle, some of them converging on one district and grazing there for a year or two and then journeying from there to another district in which they had not previously pastured. And so they continued to do, as is customary among “the children of the east.” The Canaanite and the Perrizite were thus “then” in the land of the south, and in the following years the Jebusite and the Amorite would come there.
(13) A fugitive brought the news to Abram the Hebrew, who was dwelling at the terebinths of Mamre the Amorite, kinsman of Eshkol and Aner, these being Abram’s allies.
(2) HIS TRAINED MEN. Abraham had trained them many times for battle. This is the meaning of the term chanikhav (his trained men) even though Scripture does not previously note that Abraham trained young men for war. Those who identify Abraham’s trained men with his servant Eliezer on the basis of the numerical value of the latter’s name are indulging in Midrash, as Scripture does not speak in gematria (numericals). With this type of interpretation one can interpret any name as he wishes, both in a positive and a negative manner. The 318 is to be taken literally.
(16) And they shall return here in the fourth generation, for the iniquity of the Amorites is not yet complete.”
Scripture further says, And Sarai took, to inform us that Abram did not hurry the matter until Sarai took Hagar and gave her to him. Again, Scripture mentions Sarai Abram’s wife… to Abram her husband, to allude that Sarah did not despair of Abraham and that she did not render herself distant from him as she was his wife and he her husband, but she wanted that Hagar also be his wife. This is why the verse states, And she gave her to Abram her husband to be his wife, meaning that she was not to be as a concubine but as a woman married to him. All this reflects the ethical conduct of Sarah and her respect towards her husband.