IS THE TORAH'S CIVIL LAW RELEVANT TODAY? TORAT CHOVEVEI A YCT Community Learning Project Study Guide: Parashat Mishpatim This study guide was made possible by funds granted by the Covenant Foundation. The statements made and the views expressed, however, are solely the responsibility of the author.
(יח) וְכִֽי־יְרִיבֻ֣ן אֲנָשִׁ֔ים וְהִכָּה־אִישׁ֙ אֶת־רֵעֵ֔הוּ בְּאֶ֖בֶן א֣וֹ בְאֶגְרֹ֑ף וְלֹ֥א יָמ֖וּת וְנָפַ֥ל לְמִשְׁכָּֽב׃ (יט) אִם־יָק֞וּם וְהִתְהַלֵּ֥ךְ בַּח֛וּץ עַל־מִשְׁעַנְתּ֖וֹ וְנִקָּ֣ה הַמַּכֶּ֑ה רַ֥ק שִׁבְתּ֛וֹ יִתֵּ֖ן וְרַפֹּ֥א יְרַפֵּֽא׃ (ס)
(18) When men quarrel and one strikes the other with stone or fist, and he does not die but has to take to his bed— (19) if he then gets up and walks outdoors upon his staff, the assailant shall go unpunished, except that he must pay for his idleness and his cure.
  1. Today, how would observant Jews handle the various liabilities and obligations in he above case? Would they go to a Beit Din?
  2. Assuming that many of the statutes in Parashat Mishpatim would not be adjudicated by a Halakhic authority, what relevance do these halakhot have for us today?
שו"ת אגרות משה חושן משפט חלק ב סימן יח
...בע"ה כ"ו תשרי תשמ"א. מע"כ הרה"ג ראובן סופר שליט"א.
הנה בדבר עישון סיגארעטן /סיגריות/ בביהמ"ד וביהכ"נ שלומדים ומתפללים כל חברי הכולל שיש אברכים שאינם יכולים לסבול העשן וגם משמע שקשה לגופן שחולים מזה שהרי כתבו בנוסח הבקשה שאיכא להם צער גדול וכאב ראש ומזיק להבריאות שלהם ואולי מקצר גם את החיים, ולבד כתיבתם ידוע שהוא דבר המזיק להרבה אינשי, וממילא יש לחוש שאיכא גם שיוכלו לחלות גם מהעשן שאחרים מעשנים לא רחוק ממנו ומהעשן אשר נמצא בביהמ"ד, שנשאלתי אם יכולין למונעם מלעשן בביה"מ וביהכ"נ.
והנה פשוט וברור שאפילו אם ליכא חשש סכנה וחשש חולי דנפילה למשכב אלא שקשה להם לסבול דמצטערין מזה אסור שם לעשן...וכהנהו אומני שאמר ר' /רב/ יוסף שאסור להם להקיז דם בקרקע שלהם מחמת שעל ידי הדם אתו עורבי אכלי דמא ומפסדי תמרי ומפורש שם דלא היה הפסד ממש אלא לסתם אינשי לא היה שום הפסד דהיו רוחצין התמרים ואכלי להו ורק לר' /לרב/ יוסף שהיה איסטניס לא היה אוכל תמרים כאלו, וגם לא משמע שהיה ר' /רב/ יוסף נחלה מזה אם היה אוכלם אבל היה לו צער גדול לאוכלם, ומ"מ היה אסור להם להקיז מאיסור מזיק. ...וכדכתב הרא"ש בסוף סימן י"ח מכאן משמע דכל נזק שידוע שאין המערער יכול לסובלו אע"פ שסובלין אותו שאר בנ"א אין לו חזקה נגד מערער זה, והביאו הטור להלכה בסימן קנ"ה סעיף נ"ט ובש"ע שם סעיף מ"א. וא"כ כ"ש בעישון סיגארעטן /סיגריות/ שאלו שאין יכולין לסבול הוא צער ממש בעצם לא ענין קפידא ואיסטניסות בעלמא, וגם לא רק צער בעלמא אלא גם מזיק ממש להם כידוע שאסורין המעשנים לעשן שם אף אם היה ברשותם ובביתם אם היה שייך שיגיע להם העשן ויצטערו ויוזקו.
אבל הוא עוד גרוע דהא המעשנין עושין מעשה מזיק בידים ממש דהרי עושין בפיהם עשן המזיק להאין מעשנין הנמצאים שם, ואף שאחד המעשן לא היה מזיק כלום דהיה מתבטל העשן בבית גדול כביהמ"ד מ"מ כיון שכל מעשן יודע שיש עוד הרבה מעשנין הרי יודע שעשנו יזיק כבר והוי מזיק בידים. ופשוט שאם היו ב"ד סמוכין דדנין דיני חבלות היו גובין גם ממון דמי שומת הצער ואם נחלה מזה דמי ריפוי אף כשליכא נזק שלא בטל ממלאכתו מצד החולי, וא"כ צריך לידע דל"ד חבלות לקנסות דקנס אף שברור לדינא שאם היו ב"ד סמוכין היו מחייבין קנס פטור עתה בזה"ז לשלם דבלא גמר דין דב"ד סמוכין ליכא חיוב הקנס כלל, אבל חבלות דהוא ממונא הרי חייב בעצם גם בלא עדים דלא יכול לתובעו כלל ואיכא עליו החיוב לשלם אף שאין ב"ד שיכולין לחייבו...
...דבכל אופן אסור למעשנים לעשן בביהמ"ד ובכ"מ שנמצאים אינשי דלא מעשנים ואומרים שמזיק להם ואף אם רק מצטערים לבד...

Moshe Feinstein, Igrot Moshe, Choshen Mishpat, vol. 2, ch. 18

October 6, 1980. To Rabbi Reuben Sofer...

With regard to smoking cigarettes in the Beit Midrash and Beit Knesset where all of the members of the Yeshiva study and pray. And there are young men who cannot abide the smoke. And it also sounds like it is hard on their bodies for they wrote in their request that they have great suffering and headaches, and it damages their health, and perhaps it even shortens their lives. And irregardless of what they wrote, it is known that it (smoking) is damaging for many people, and therefore we should suspect that you can get sick from the smoke that others are smoking not far from you and from the smoke in the Beit Midrash. And I've been asked if it is possible to prevent them from smoking in the Beit Midrash and in the Beit Knesset?

And it is simple and clear that even if there is no suspicion of danger or illness that would cause them to "take to their beds" but rather it is hard for them to take, for it this causes them discomfort, it is forbidden to smoke there...And this is like the bloodletters that Rav Yosef said it is forbidden for them to let blood on their own ground because the blood will attract ravens who eat blood and (the ravens will then perch in the date palms and) they will ruin the dates (Baba Bathra 23a). And it is explicit there that there was no real loss but rather, for normal people, there was no loss at all, because they would wash off the dates and eat them. And only Rav Yosef who was particularly fastidious would not eat dates like these. And it also doesn't appear that Rav Yosef would get sick from eating them. However, it would be extremely uncomfortable for him to eat them. And in any case, it was forbidden for them to let blood from the prohibition of doing damage... And this is as the Rosh wrote at the end of sec. 18 from here we hear that all damage that is known that the plaintiff cannot take it, even though other people can take it, this is not a presumption against the plaintiff. And the Tur brings this as the law in ch. 155 sec. 59. And in the Shulchan Arukh ch. 155 sec. 41. And therefore, even more so in the case of smoking cigarettes, that those who are not able to take it, this is a real discomfort and not a matter of particularity and fastidiousness, and this is not only discomfort but also real damage to them as is known, it is forbidden for smokers to smoke there even if it was their property, if it was possible for the smoke to reach them and they will be uncomfortable and damaged.

However, it is even worse than that. For the smokers are doing an act of damage with their own hands. For they are making smoke with their mouths that damages the non-smokers who are there. And even though one smoker would not do any damage for the smoke would disappear in a large building like a Beit Midrash, in any case, since every smoker knows that there are many more smokers, they therefore know already that their smoke will do damage and this is damaging with their own hands. And it is obvious that if there was an ordained court that judged issues of damages, they would demand payment for discomfort and if they got sick from this, payment for medical expenses even if there was no payment of damages because there was no loss of work because of the sickness. And if so, you must know that damages are different from fines. For a fine, even though it is clear that if there was an ordained court, they would require a fine, They are exempt from paying in this day and age because without the final verdict of the court, there is no obligation of a fine at all. However, damages, which are compensation, they are obligated in essence, even if there are no witnesses so that they can't sue them at all and they have the obligation to pay even though the court cannot enforce their obligation...

...For in any case, it is forbidden for the smokers to smoke in the Beit Midrash and in any place where there are non-smokers who say that it damages them, and even if it is only discomfort alone...

  1. When Rav Moshe talks about the difference between damages and fines, what is he actually saying about the relevance of the Torah's civil law?
  2. In what other cases does knowing the values of the Torah regarding civil law help to clarify what our own attitudes ought to be?
שו"ת אגרות משה חושן משפט חלק ב סימן סה
י"ז מנ"א תש"ל. מע"כ ידידי הרה"ג מהר"ר יחזקאל שרגא ווינפעלד שליט"א.
והנה בדבר הדייעט שהאדם הנוהג כמדת אכילת הדייעט הוא מצטער יותר מצער מניעת שתיית יין שאר"א הקפר ברבי שאסור והגמ' בב"ק דף צ"א ע"ב יליף מזה דאין אדם רשאי לחבול בעצמו, וכתבו התוס' שם ד"ה אלא דאסור אפילו לצורך, שעורר זה כתר"ה. הנה פשוט שאלו שנוהגין בהדייעט לרפואה שלא יחלה ולא יסתכן ודאי שאין מה לפקפק ולא על זה דן כתר"ה,ואין זה בכלל הלצורך שכתבו התוס' לאסור שהוא להרוחת ממון או להגדיל צערו על המת, דלרפואה אף כשלא יהיה סכנה הרי הצער מהמחלה ואף רק ממה שירא שלא להתחלות הוא יותר צער מהצער שלא יוכל ליהנות מהדברים שנמנע מלאכול, ואף כשסובל קצת רעבון, דהוא רק מחליף צער קטן תחת צער גדול, שזה ודאי לא רק שמותר אלא שמאותו הדין עצמו דאסור לחבול בעצמו ולהצטער מחוייב לנהוג כהדייעט שקבעו לו הרופאים.
ורק על אלו נשים שנוהגות בדייעט רק בשביל נוי ויופי שייך לידון אם מותר מאחר שמצטערות. אבל עיין במה שכתבתי בספר אגרות משה חו"מ ח"א סימן ק"ג דדבר פשוט שבשביל הרוחת ממון ושאר הנאות מותר להצטער במניעה משתיית יין משום דלא נחשב זה מצטער כלל מאחר דהוא שמח אדרבה מהממון שמרויח ומשאר הנאות שאית לו עי"ז מאחר דכל הצער הוא מצד שמתאוה ליין והרי מתאוה יותר להרויח כדחזינן שבשביל זה הוא נמנע מיין, והוא פשוט וברור וממש כן הוא הנאת האשה ממה שתהיה יותר נאה ויפה, לא מבעיא בפנויות שרוצות להנשא אלא אפילו נשואות כדי להתחבב על בעליהן וכדחזינן שרוצות יותר בהדייעט ולא משגיחות על שמצטערות מזה בשביל הנאתם מהנוי (וע"ע מש"כ מזה בתשו' להלן סי' ס"ו). אבל היתר זה הוא מצער המניעה מדברים מתוקים שהצער הוא רק ממניעת הנאה שנחשב הנאה כנגד הנאה ובוחרת בהנאת הנוי שגדולה לה ביותר, אבל אם בהדייעט מצטערת ברעבון אף שהוא באופן שאין לחוש להתחלות מרעבון כזה (עיין שבת דף ל"ג ע"א) דאיכא צער ממש בעצם לא מצד תאוה, הוא כצער דחובל בגופו ממש שכתבתי שם שאסור להרוחת ממון ולשאר הנאות. ולכן היה נוטה לאסור להרעיב עצמן בשביל נוי ויופי.
אבל הא חזינן במגילה דף ז' ע"ב דאיכא לפעמים שגם רעבון נעשה מצד טוב המאכלים שנמצא שגם צער רעבון תלוי בתאות הנאה, שלכן מאחר שבהנהגה לפי הדייעט איכא מדת אוכל שאין להיות בעצם צער רעבון, וא"כ הוא רק כצער של מניעת הנאה שאין לאסור כשהיא נהנית בשביל זה מנוי ויופי. ולכן אף שיש טעם לאסור כשיש לה צער רעבון אם הדייעט הוא רק לנוי ויופי לא בשביל בריאות הגוף, אין למחות בידן.
ידידו, משה פיינשטיין.

Moshe Feinstein, Igrot Moshe, Choshen Mishpat, vol. 2, ch. 25

August 19, 1930...To Rabbi Yechezkel Sharaga Weinfeld,

With regard to the diet that a person takes on, and as a result of the diet, a person suffers more than the discomfort of abstaining from wine, which Rabbi Eliezer HaKapar said is forbidden (Baba Kama 91b), and the Gemara learns from this that a person is not permitted to damage themselves. And the Tosafot wrote that it is forbidden even when it is needed...

Obviously, people who diet for the purpose of health, so that they will not get sick and will not be in danger, it is certain that there is nothing to question and this is not what your honor is asking about. And this is not one of the "needed" things that the Tosafot wrote were forbidden, for that is for the purpose of earning money or to increase one's suffering in mourning a dead person. Because for health, even when they don't have any immediate damage, the discomfort from the illness and even from the concern not to become ill, is greater than the discomfort of not being able to enjoy the things they are abstaining from eating. And even if they suffer some hunger, this is simply exchanging a small discomfort for a large discomfort which is certainly no only permitted but from this very rule, that it is forbidden to damage oneself and to cause oneself discomfort, one is required to follow the diet that the doctors have prescribed.

It is only relevant to speak about women who take on diets only for the sake of beauty, if it is permitted since they cause themselves discomfort. However, see what I wrote in my book, Igrot Moshe, Choshen Mishpat, vol. 1, ch. 103 that it is obvious that for the purpose of earning money and other benefits, one is permitted to suffer the discomfort of abstaining from wine since this is not considered discomfort at all since, on the contrary they are happy from the money that they are earning and from the other benefits tat they have from this since all the discomfort is from the fact that they desire wine and, in fact, they desire to earn money more as we can see since in order to do this, they have abstained from wine. And this is simple and clear and it is the exact same thing with the benefit of the woman from the fact that she is more beautiful. And this is not only about single women who want to get married, but even among married women in order to be attractive to their husbands as we say that they prefer the diet and they do not mind that they are made uncomfortable because of it because of the benefit from the beauty... However, this permission is only for the discomfort from abstaining from sweet things where the discomfort is only from the abstention from the abstention from a benefit that is considered a benefit against another benefit and she chooses the benefit of beauty which is most important to her. However, if in the course of the diet, she is uncomfortable because of hunger, even if it is only in such a way that she is not concerned that she will become ill from hunger...for this is an essential discomfort and not discomfort from a desire. This is like the discomfort of damaging oneself which I wrote in the above cited source, it forbidden for the purpose of earning money and other benefits. And therefore, it would seem forbidden for them to starve themselves for beauty...

However, we've seen in Megillah 7b that there are times when hunger is actually from the quality of the food which tells us that the discomfort of hunger is also connected to the desire for benefit. Therefore, since in taking on the diet, there is an aspect of eating so that there will not be the essential discomfort of hunger, and if so this is only the discomfort of the removal of benefit which we do not forbid when she benefits, as a result, from beauty. And therefore, even though there is reason to forbid when she has pangs of hunger if the diet is only for beauty and not for health, we shouldn't stop them...

  1. In what way does Rav Moshe's opinion on diets perpetuate negative body image for women in the Jewish community? In what way might it open doors to creating more positive body image? On the whole do you see this responsum as useful or destructive in using religious values and laws to instill positive values?
  2. Knowing what we know today about the devastating effects of eating disorders and the extraordinary danger of communal expectations about beauty and thinness, what do you think Rav Moshe would say today about aesthetic dieting?
  3. Do legal opinions like this one have any effect in altering the culture of religious communities? Considering who have access to and read them, are they likely to effect the larger community?
Sarah L. Weinberger-Litman, PhD, LauraA. Rabin, PhD, Joshua Fogel, PhD
and Janell L. Mensinger, PhD, "The Influence of Religious Orientation and Spiritual Well-Being on Body Dissatisfaction and Disordered Eating in a Sample of Jewish Women", International Journal of Child and Adolescent Health, Volume 1, Issue 4, 2008, pp. 382-383
According to study results, it appears that internalizing one’s religious beliefs is helpful in terms of the development of body image and eatingdisturbance as compared to having an extrinsic attitude. Extrinsically oriented individuals often focus on the social or external rewards that religious practice can provide and may be more outwardly focused on physical appearance...
...An issue not considered in previous empirical studies of orthodox Jewish women and body image is the extreme pressure within this community to enter into a socially desirable marriage at an early age. Even among segments of this population with limited exposure to media, ideas about what constitutes a “suitable” bride closely resemble unattainable beauty ideals portrayed in the mainstream media. In fact, some have observed that over the last decade, the acceptable weight for orthodox women of marriageable age has become thinner and thinner, while beauty ideals have become more rigid...Contrary to Gluck and Geliebter’s assertion that this rigid lifestyle provides a sense of control, many young women have reported feeling extremely “out of control” as a result of orthodox Jewish tenets; these women may use their bodies in unhealthy ways (e.g.,food restriction or bingeing) to express uncomfortable or shameful feelings.
In the context of the values and standards reported above, orthodox Jewish women may feel even more pressure than their secular counterparts to conform to a thin-ideal. This is where the distinction between an intrinsic and extrinsic orientation becomes crucial and is more useful than the simple distinction between observant versus non-observant or orthodox versus non-orthodox. As suggested by our findings, participants with an extrinsic orientation towards religion, who are concerned primarily with its social aspects, may be more outwardly focused on physical appearance, especially as it relates to community pressures. By contrast, intrinsically oriented individuals may be better able to distinguish societal pressures from religious values. These women may in fact be the ones who are protected by orthodox Judaism’s values, whereas women with an extrinsic orientation may be more vulnerable to body dissatisfaction and eating disturbance...
  1. What does this study suggest about the possible effect of Rav Moshe's opinion above? Will the intrinsically motivated religious population be reinforced by this legal material? Will the extrinsically oriented population care about it? How might law and culture intersect here?