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יְהִי רָצוֹן מִלְּפָנֶיךָ ה׳ אֱלֹקֵינוּ וֵאלֹקֵי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ יוֹצְרֵנוּ יוֹצֵר בְּרֵאשִׁית כְּשֵׁם שֶׁהִמְצֵאתָ עוֹלָמְךָ בִּרְצוֹנְךָ בְּיוֹם זֶה וְנִתְיַחַדְתָּ בְּעוֹלָמֶךָ. וְתָלִיתָ בּוֹ עֶלְיוֹנִים וְתַחְתּוֹנִים בְּמַאֲמָרֶךָ. וְאֵין שֵׁנִי עִמְּךָ וְאֵין מִלְּבַדֶּךָ. וְגָלִיתָ רָזֵי עֶלְיוֹנִים וְתַחְתּוֹנִים לִבְרוּאֶיךָ.
כֵּן בְּרַחֲמֶיךָ הָרַבִּים תְּיַחֵד לְבָבֵנוּ וּלְבַב עַמְּךָ יִשְׂרָאֵל לְאַהֲבָה וּלְיִרְאָה אֶת שְׁמֶךָ. וְהָאֵר עֵינֵינוּ בִּמְאוֹר תּוֹרָתֶךָ. כִּי עִמְּךָ מְקוֹר חַיִּים בְּאוֹרְךָ נִרְאֶה אוֹר: וְזַכֵּנוּ לֵאוֹר בְּאוֹרְךָ הַצָפוּן לַצַדִּיקִים לֶעָתִיד לָבֹא. וּמֵחָכְמָתְךָ חַכְּמֵנוּ וּמִבִּינָתְךָ הֲבִינֵנוּ וְסוֹד שְׁמוֹתֶיךָ הוֹדִיעֵנוּ וְהוֹד תּוֹרָתְךָ הַרְאֵנוּ וּבִקְדֻשָּׁתְךָ קַדְּשֵׁנוּ וּבְצֵל כְּנָפֶיךָ תַּסְתִּירֵנוּ וּמִטּוּבְךָ תַּשְׂבִּיעֵנוּ וּמִזִיו כְּבוֹדְךָ תִּתֵּן עָלֵינוּ וְהַרְאֵנוּ פְּנֵי מְשִׁיחֶךָ וּבְטוּב לֵבָב שַׂמְּחֵנוּ שֶׁנּוּכַל לִסְבּוֹל אֲנַחְנוּ וְכָל עַמְּךָ בֵּית יִשְׂרָאֵל. כִּי אַתָּה שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלַּת כָּל פֶּה. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה שׁוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלָּה:
Creator of beginnings, as You created Your world on this day,
uniting fragments into a universe, so may it be Your will to help
unite my fragmented heart and the heart of all Your people
Israel to love and revere You. Illumine our lives with the light
of Your Torah, for in Your light do we see light. Grant us this
year a hint of the light of redemption, the light of healing and
of peace. May the words of my mouth and the meditations
of my heart be acceptable to You, ADONAI, My rock and my
redeemer. Amen.
MY GOD . The Babylonian Talmud says that every Amidah must be accompanied by a personal prayer (Berakhot 17a). The prayer that is printed here for the first day is one of the Talmud's exemplars; it is attributed to Mar son of Ravina (5th century). The prayer for the second day appears in the Prague prayerbook Shaarei Tziyon (1662); its English rendering is by Jules Harlow. Both prayers are distinguished by their use of the first-person singular ("," "me, "my"), whereas almost all other prayers are in the first-person plural ("we," "us," "our"). Mahzor Lev Shalom, Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. The Rabbincal Assembly of America p139
R. Nathan Nata ben Moses Hannover: The Life and Works of an Illustrious and Tragic Figure
Gershom Scholem, in describing the influence of Kabbalah on Jewish life writes that one of the areas in which it had the greatest influence was prayer. Among the most influential books in this sphere was Sha’arei Ziyyon in which Lurianic doctrines “of man’s mission on earth, his connections with the power of the upper worlds, the transmigrations of his soul, and his striving to achieve tikkun were woven into prayers that could be appreciated and understood by everyone, or that at least could arouse everyone’s imagination and emotion.”[26]
The popularity of Sha’arei Ziyyon is such that it has been described by Sylvie-Anne Goldberg as “one of the most widely read books in the Jewish world.”[27] Indeed, Sha’arei Ziyyon was reprinted in Prague three times in the seventeenth century (1682, 1688, 1692), and three additional times within a decade, in Dyhernfurth ([1689]), Wilhermsdorf (1690) and Dessau (1698). The Bet Eked Sefarim enumerates fifty-four editions through 1917.[28]
https://seforimblog.com/2018/12/nathan-nat-ben-moses-hannover/
(ד) וְאֵת הַכּוֹכָבִים, אָמַר רַב אַחָא, מָשָׁל לְמֶלֶךְ שֶׁהָיוּ לוֹ שְׁנֵי אַפּוֹטְרוֹפִּין, אֶחָד שׁוֹלֵט בָּעִיר וְאֶחָד שׁוֹלֵט בַּמְדִינָה, אָמַר הַמֶּלֶךְ הוֹאִיל וּמִעֵט עַצְמוֹ זֶה לִהְיוֹת שׁוֹלֵט בָּעִיר, גּוֹזֵר אֲנִי עָלָיו בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁהוּא יוֹצֵא תְּהֵא כָּל אֻכְלוּסָא יוֹצְאָה עִמּוֹ, וּבְשָׁעָה שֶׁיְהֵא נִכְנָס תְּהֵא בּוּלֵי וְדִימוּס נִכְנְסָה עִמּוֹ. כָּךְ אָמַר הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא הוֹאִיל וְהַלְּבָנָה הַזּוֹ מִעֲטָה עַצְמָהּ לִהְיוֹת שׁוֹלֶטֶת בַּלַּיְלָה, גּוֹזֵר אֲנִי עָלֶיהָ בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁהִיא יוֹצֵאת שֶׁיְהוּ הַכּוֹכָבִים יוֹצְאִין עִמָּהּ, בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁהִיא נִכְנֶסֶת יְהוּ הַכּוֹכָבִים נִכְנָסִים עִמָּהּ. וְדִכְוָותֵהּ (בראשית י, כה): וְשֵׁם אָחִיו יָקְטָן, אָמַר רַבִּי אַחָא לָמָּה נִקְרָא שְׁמוֹ יָקְטָן, שֶׁהָיָה מַקְטִין אֶת עֲסָקָיו, מַה זָּכָה, זָכָה לְהַעֲמִיד שְׁלשׁ עֶשְׂרֵה מִשְׁפָּחוֹת גְּדוֹלוֹת. וּמָה אִם יָקְטָן עַל יְדֵי שֶׁהָיָה מַקְטִין אֶת עֲסָקָיו כָּךְ, גָּדוֹל שֶׁהוּא מַקְטִין אֶת עֲסָקָיו עַל אַחַת כַּמָּה וְכַמָּה. וְדִכְוָתֵהּ (בראשית מח, יד): וַיִּשְׁלַח יִשְׂרָאֵל אֶת יְמִינוֹ וַיָּשֶׁת עַל רֹאשׁ אֶפְרַיִם וְהוּא הַצָּעִיר, אָמַר רַבִּי חוֹנְיָא וְכִי מִן הַתּוֹלְדוֹת אֵין אָנוּ יוֹדְעִים שֶׁהוּא הַצָּעִיר, אֶלָּא מַה הוּא הַצָּעִיר, שֶׁהָיָה מַצְעִיר אֶת עֲסָקָיו. מַה זָּכָה, זָכָה לִבְכוֹרָה. וּמָה אִם הַצָּעִיר עַל יְדֵי שֶׁהָיָה מַצְעִיר אֶת עֲסָקָיו, זָכָה לִבְכוֹרָה, הַגָּדוֹל שֶׁהוּא מַצְעִיר אֶת עֲסָקָיו, עַל אַחַת כַּמָּה וְכַמָּה, אֶתְמְהָא.
(4) “And the stars” (Genesis 1:16) – Rav Aḥa said: This is analogous to a king who had two stewards, one ruled [only] over the city and one ruled over the [rest of the] province. The king said: ‘Since this one diminished himself [and consented] to be ruler over the city, I decree concerning him that whenever he goes out, a large crowd should go out with him, and when he enters, the city council and the multitudes should enter with him.’ So, the Holy One blessed be He said: ‘Since the moon diminished itself to rule at night, I decree concerning it that when it goes out, the stars should go out with it, and when it goes in,11When it sets. the stars should go in with it.’
Similarly, “the name of his brother was Yoktan” (Genesis 10:25) – Rabbi Aḥa said: Why was he named Yoktan? It is because he would minimize [maktin] his affairs.12He was humble. What did he merit? He merited producing thirteen great families.13See Genesis 10:26–29. Now, if Yoktan14Who was the younger brother (Genesis 10:25). received this because he minimized his affairs, if an important man minimizes his affairs, all the more so.
Similarly, “Israel extended his right hand, and laid it on the head of Ephraim, who was the younger” (Genesis 48:14) – Rabbi Ḥonya said: Do we not know from the accounts of the births that he was the younger? What, then, is “who was the younger [tza’ir]”? It is because he would minimize [matzir] his affairs. What did he merit? He merited the birthright. Now, if the young one merited the birthright because he minimized his affairs, an older person who minimizes his affairs, all the more so. This is astounding.15It is astounding how great the power of humility is.
וַיְבָרֶךְ אֱלֹקִים אֶת יוֹם הַשְּׁבִיעִי וגו', ... רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בַּר יְהוּדָה אִישׁ כְּפַר עַכּוֹ אוֹמֵר מִשּׁוּם רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁנִּתְקַלְּלוּ הַמְּאוֹרוֹת מֵעֶרֶב שַׁבָּת, אֲבָל לֹא לָקוּ עַד מוֹצָאֵי שַׁבָּת, אַתְיָא כְּרַבָּנָן וְלָא אַתְיָא כִּדְרַבִּי אַמֵּי, דְּאָמַר רַבִּי אַמֵּי אָדָם הָרִאשׁוֹן לֹא לָן כְּבוֹדוֹ עִמּוֹ, מַה טַּעַם (תהלים מט, יג): וְאָדָם בִּיקָר בַּל יָלִין נִמְשַׁל כַּבְּהֵמוֹת נִדְּמוּ.
וְרַבָּנָן אָמְרֵי, לָן כְּבוֹדוֹ עִמּוֹ, וּמוֹצָאֵי שַׁבָּת נִטַּל מִמֶּנּוּ זִיווֹ וּטְרָדוֹ מִגַּן עֵדֶן, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (איוב יד, כ): מְשַׁנֶּה פָנָיו וַתְּשַׁלְּחֵהוּ.
כֵּיוָן שֶׁשָּׁקְעָה חַמָּה בְּלֵילֵי שַׁבָּת, בִּקֵּשׁ הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לִגְנֹז אֶת הָאוֹרָה, וְחָלַק כָּבוֹד לַשַּׁבָּת. הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב: וַיְבָרֶךְ אֱלֹקִים אֶת יוֹם הַשְּׁבִיעִי וַיְקַדֵּשׁ אוֹתוֹ, בֵּרְכוֹ בְּאוֹרָה, כֵּיוָן שֶׁשָּׁקְעָה הַחַמָּה בְּלֵילֵי הַשַּׁבָּת הִתְחִילָה הָאוֹרָה וְהָיְתָה מְשַׁמֶּשֶׁת, הִתְחִילוּ הַכֹּל מְקַלְּסִין, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (איוב לז, ג): תַּחַת כָּל הַשָּׁמַיִם יִשְׁרֵהוּ וְאוֹרוֹ עַל כַּנְפוֹת הָאָרֶץ, מִפְּנֵי מָה וְאוֹרוֹ עַל כַּנְפוֹת הָאָרֶץ, אָמַר רַבִּי יְהוּדָה בַּר רַבִּי סִימוֹן, אוֹר שֶׁבָּרָא הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא בְּיוֹם רִאשׁוֹן, אָדָם צוֹפֶה וּמַבִּיט בּוֹ מִסּוֹף הָעוֹלָם וְעַד סוֹפוֹ, כֵּיוָן שֶׁהִסְתַּכֵּל הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא בְּאַנְשֵׁי דּוֹר הַמַּבּוּל וּבְאַנְשֵׁי דּוֹר הַפְלָגָה שֶׁמַּעֲשֵׂיהֶן מְקֻלְקָלִין, עָמַד וּגְנָזָהּ וְהִתְקִינָהּ לַצַּדִּיקִים לֶעָתִיד לָבוֹא. וּמִנַּיִן שֶׁגְּנָזָהּ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (איוב לח, טו): וְיִמָּנַע מֵרְשָׁעִים אוֹרָם וּזְרוֹעַ רָמָה תִּשָּׁבֵר. וּמִנַּיִן שֶׁהִתְקִינָהּ לַצַּדִּיקִים לֶעָתִיד לָבוֹא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי ד, יח): וְאֹרַח צַדִּיקִים כְּאוֹר נֹגַהּ הוֹלֵךְ וָאוֹר עַד נְכוֹן הַיּוֹם. רַבִּי לֵוִי בְּשֵׁם רַבִּי זְעֵירָא אָמַר, ל"ו שָׁעוֹת שִׁמְשָׁה אוֹתָהּ הָאוֹרָה, שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר שֶׁל עֶרֶב שַׁבָּת, וּשְׁנֵים עָשָׂר שֶׁל לֵילֵי שַׁבָּת, וּשְׁנֵים עָשָׂר שֶׁל שַׁבָּת. כֵּיוָן שֶׁשָּׁקְעָה הַחַמָּה בְּמוֹצָאֵי שַׁבָּת הִתְחִיל הַחשֶׁךְ מְמַשְׁמֵשׁ וּבָא וְנִתְיָרֵא אָדָם הָרִאשׁוֹן, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים קלט, יא): וָאֹמַר אַךְ חשֶׁךְ יְשׁוּפֵנִי וְלַיְלָה אוֹר בַּעֲדֵנִי, אוֹתוֹ שֶׁכָּתוּב בּוֹ (בראשית ג, טו): הוּא יְשׁוּפְךָ רֹאשׁ וְאַתָּה תְּשׁוּפֶנּוּ עָקֵב, בָּא לְהִזְדַּוֵּג לִי, מֶה עָשָׂה הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא, זִמֵּן לוֹ שְׁנֵי רְעָפִים וְהֵקִישָׁן זֶה לָזֶה וְיָצָא מֵהֶן אוֹר וּבֵרַךְ עָלֶיהָ, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב: וְלַיְלָה אוֹר בַּעֲדֵנִי. מַה בֵּרַךְ עָלֶיהָ, בּוֹרֵא מְאוֹרֵי הָאֵשׁ. אַתְיָא כִּשְׁמוּאֵל, דְּאָמַר שְׁמוּאֵל מִפְּנֵי מָה מְבָרְכִין עַל הָאוֹר בְּמוֹצָאֵי שַׁבָּת, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהִיא תְּחִלַּת בְּרִיָּתָהּ. רַב הוּנָא בְּשֵׁם רַב וְרַבִּי אַבָּהוּ בְּשֵׁם רַבִּי יוֹחָנָן אָמַר, אַף מוֹצָאֵי יוֹם הַכִּפּוּרִים מְבָרְכִין עָלָיו, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁשָּׁבַת הָאוּר כָּל אוֹתוֹ הַיּוֹם.
“God blessed the seventh day [and sanctified it]” – ...
Rabbi Shimon bar Yehuda of Kefar Akko says in the name of Rabbi Shimon: Even though the lights were cursed on the day before Shabbat, they were not stricken until the conclusion of Shabbat. This is in accordance with the opinion of the Rabbis, and not in accordance with the opinion of Rabbi Ami, as Rabbi Ami said: Adam the first man, his glory did not spend the night with him. What is the source? “Man [adam] will not go to rest in his splendor; he is like the beasts that perish” (Psalms 49:13).
The Rabbis say: His glory did spend the night with him, and only at the conclusion of Shabbat was his radiance taken from him, as He expelled him from the Garden of Eden. That is what is written: “You alter his countenance and send him away” (Job 14:20).
When the sun set on Shabbat eve, the Holy One blessed be He sought to put away the [primordial] light, but He accorded honor to Shabbat. That is what is written: “God blessed the seventh day, and sanctified it” – He blessed it with light. When the sun set on Shabbat eve the [primordial] light continued to function. Everyone began praising [God]; that is what is written: “Under all the heavens they sing His praises, and His light is to the ends of the earth” (Job 37:3). Why was this? Because “His light is to the ends of the earth.”
Rabbi Yehuda bar Rabbi Simon said: By the light that the Holy One blessed be He created on the first day, a person could look out and see from one end of the world to the other end. When the Holy One blessed be He looked at the people of the generation of the Flood and the people of the generation of the Dispersion, whose actions were to be corrupt, He arose and hid it away and designated it for the righteous in the future. From where is it derived that He hid it away? It is as it is stated: “Their light will be withheld from the wicked, and the upraised arm will be broken” (Job 38:15). And from where is it derived that He designated it for the righteous in the future? It is as it is stated: “But the path of the righteous is like a dawning light, growing brighter until the day is established” (Proverbs 4:18).
Rabbi Levi said in the name of Rabbi Ze’eira: That [primordial] light functioned for thirty-six hours – twelve on the day before Shabbat, twelve on the night of Shabbat, and twelve on Shabbat. As the sun set at the conclusion of Shabbat, darkness began approaching, and Adam the first man became afraid, as it is stated: “And I said that darkness will envelop me [yeshufeni]; night for me is light,” (Psalms 139:11) – that one [the serpent] in whose regard it is written: “He will strike you [yeshufekha] with his head, and you will strike him [teshufenu] with your heel” (Genesis 3:15), is now coming to confront me. What did the Holy One blessed be He do? He prepared for him two flint stones and he struck them one against the other. Light emerged from them and he recited a blessing over it. That is what is written: “Night for me is light.” What blessing did he recite over it? [Blessed be God] Who creates the lights of fire. This is in accordance with the opinion of Shmuel, as Shmuel said: Why does one recite a blessing over light at the conclusion of Shabbat? It is because that time was the beginning of its creation. Rav Huna in the name of Rav and Rabbi Abahu in the name of Rabbi Yoḥanan said: One recites a blessing over it [light] at the conclusion of Yom Kippur, as well, because fire rested all that day.
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה׳ אֱלֹקֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם. הַמַּבְדִּיל בֵּין קֹדֶשׁ לְחוֹל. בֵּין אוֹר לְחֹשֶׁךְ. בֵּין יִשְׂרָאֵל לָעַמִּים. בֵּין יוֹם הַשְּׁבִיעִי לְשֵׁשֶׁת יְמֵי הַמַּעֲשֶׂה.
בֵּין קְדֻשַּׁת שַׁבָּת לִקְדֻשַּׁת יוֹם טוֹב הִבְדַּלְתָּ. וְאֶת יוֹם הַשְּׁבִיעִי מִשֵּׁשֶׁת יְמֵי הַמַּעֲשֶׂה קִדַּשְׁתָּ.
הִבְדַּלְתָּ וְקִדַּשְׁתָּ אֶת עַמְּךָ יִשְׂרָאֵל בִּקְדֻשָּׁתֶךָ:
בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה׳. הַמַּבְדִּיל בֵּין קֹדֶשׁ לְקֹדֶשׁ:
Praised are You, Lord our God, King of the universe who has endowed all creation with distinctive qualities, distinguishing between sacred and secular time, between light and darkness, between the people
Israel and other peoples, between the seventh day and the six working days of the week. You have made a distinction between the sanctity of Shabbat and the sanctity of Festivals, and you have hallowed Shabbat
more than the other days of the week. You have set Your people Israel apart, making their lives holy through attachment to Your holiness. Praised are You, Lord who distinguishes one sacred time from another.
קדושים תהיו ...הפרישות היא המוזכרת בכל מקום בתלמוד שבעליה נקראים פרושים
YE SHALL BE HOLY. .. it is rather the self-control mentioned throughout the Talmud, which confers upon those who practice it the name of P’rushim (Pharisees), [literally: “those who are separated” from self-indulgence, as will be explained, or those who practice self-restraint].
(כא) וַיַּפֵּל֩ ה׳ אֱלֹקִ֧ים ׀ תַּרְדֵּמָ֛ה עַל־הָאָדָ֖ם וַיִּישָׁ֑ן וַיִּקַּ֗ח אַחַת֙ מִצַּלְעֹתָ֔יו וַיִּסְגֹּ֥ר בָּשָׂ֖ר תַּחְתֶּֽנָּה׃ (כב) וַיִּ֩בֶן֩ ה׳ אֱלֹקִ֧ים ׀ אֶֽת־הַצֵּלָ֛ע אֲשֶׁר־לָקַ֥ח מִן־הָֽאָדָ֖ם לְאִשָּׁ֑ה וַיְבִאֶ֖הָ אֶל־הָֽאָדָֽם׃ (כג) וַיֹּ֘אמֶר֮ הָֽאָדָם֒ זֹ֣את הַפַּ֗עַם עֶ֚צֶם מֵֽעֲצָמַ֔י וּבָשָׂ֖ר מִבְּשָׂרִ֑י לְזֹאת֙ יִקָּרֵ֣א אִשָּׁ֔ה כִּ֥י מֵאִ֖ישׁ לֻֽקְחָה־זֹּֽאת׃ (כד) עַל־כֵּן֙ יַֽעֲזׇב־אִ֔ישׁ אֶת־אָבִ֖יו וְאֶת־אִמּ֑וֹ וְדָבַ֣ק בְּאִשְׁתּ֔וֹ וְהָי֖וּ לְבָשָׂ֥ר אֶחָֽד׃
“This one at last
Is bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh.
This one shall be called Woman,*Woman Heb. ’ishshah; so trad. More precisely in context, “a (female) member of the human species.” See next note and the Dictionary under ’ish.
For from a Human*a Human More precisely, “the (formerly lone) member of the human species.” NJPS “man”; trad. “Man.” See the Dictionary under ’ish. was she taken.” (24) Hence a man*man So trad.; Heb. ’ish. Contrast the previous verse. leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife,*wife So trad.; Heb. ’ishshah (with possessive suffix). Cf. the previous note and contrast the previous verse. so that they become one flesh.
וַיִּבֶן ה׳ אֱלֹקִים אֶת הַצֵּלָע, רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בְּשֵׁם רַבִּי יוֹסֵי בֶּן זִמְרָא אָמַר נִתַּן בָּהּ בִּינָה יוֹתֵר מִן הָאִישׁ
“The Lord God built the side that He had taken from the man into a woman, and brought her to the man” (Genesis 2:22).
“The Lord God built [vayiven] the side” – Rabbi Elazar said in the name of Rabbi Yosei ben Zimra: Understanding [bina] was inserted in her, more than in man
(ו) וַתֵּ֣רֶא הָֽאִשָּׁ֡ה כִּ֣י טוֹב֩ הָעֵ֨ץ לְמַאֲכָ֜ל וְכִ֧י תַֽאֲוָה־ה֣וּא לָעֵינַ֗יִם וְנֶחְמָ֤ד הָעֵץ֙ לְהַשְׂכִּ֔יל וַתִּקַּ֥ח מִפִּרְי֖וֹ וַתֹּאכַ֑ל וַתִּתֵּ֧ן גַּם־לְאִישָׁ֛הּ עִמָּ֖הּ וַיֹּאכַֽל׃
(6) And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit, and did eat, and gave also to her husband with her; and he did eat.
Nothing in the biblical text suggests that Adam desired the fruit and would have disobeyed God’s command on his own. Indeed, he does not disobey God until obeying God means disobeying the woman: “She took of its fruit and ate. She also gave some to her man with her [imma] and he ate” (Gen. 3:6): He eats the fruit because the woman gives it to him. The woman desires the fruit—and the man cleaves to the woman.
See: Desire and Power: Adam and Eve in Genesis 1–3, By Roslyn Weiss, Jewish Reivew of Books, Fall 2024